If you are considering or preparing to file for divorce in Texas, early, careful decisions can significantly affect your rights, obligations, and long-term outcomes. The following three tips can help you protect your interests from day one.

1) Be Cautious on Social Media
Treat all social media activity as if it will be reviewed in court. Until your matter is fully resolved, avoid: (a) Posting photos, videos, or stories that could be misconstrued (including travel, purchases, social events, or alcohol use); (b) Sharing status updates about your case, your spouse, or your children; (c) Commenting on, tagging, or “liking” content that could appear disparaging or inconsistent with your stated positions. Do not delete existing content without first consulting counsel, as preservation obligations may apply. Consider tightening privacy settings, but remember that privacy settings do not prevent discovery or screenshots. When in doubt, stay off all platforms and do not discuss your case by text or direct message.
2) Practice Financial Prudence
Major financial moves can complicate your case and may affect the community estate. Until you have legal guidance specific to your situation, avoid: (a) Buying or selling a house, car, or other high-value assets; (b) Taking on new debt, co-signing loans, or changing beneficiaries; (c) Making unusual withdrawals or transfers, or liquidating investments. Maintain ordinary, good-faith household expenses. Preserve financial records, including bank statements, paystubs, tax returns, and retirement account statements. Before any significant transaction, consult your attorney to evaluate timing, disclosures, and potential court orders that could restrict transfers or require notice.
3) Retain Experienced Legal Counsel Early
Texas family law involves nuanced rules on community and separate property, temporary orders, parenting time, support, discovery, and settlement strategy. Retaining an experienced family law attorney as early as possible helps you: (a) Map out immediate next steps and avoid missteps that could prejudice your case; (b) Develop a tailored plan for children, housing, finances, and evidence preservation; (c) Navigate negotiations, mediation, and—if necessary—hearings with a clear strategy. Bring key documents to your initial consultation, including a timeline of the relationship, financial statements, any prenuptial or postnuptial agreements, and known court deadlines. Ask about communication protocols, budgeting for fees, and a plan for temporary orders if urgent relief is needed.
For advice tailored to your circumstances, contact an experienced Texas family law attorney to discuss your goals, risks, and options.